We should not allow the past influences us so, so much … It’s useless …. to waste our lives as that. … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
We should not allow the past influences us so, so much … It’s useless …. to waste our lives as that. … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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I was probably into the 3rd grade …. during the summer vacation, in visit with a very good friend of mine … from that time …. at his grandma …
Suddenly… she started to talk to us about … women … and we could not believe it.
Smiling … she said … “Boys …. You can have a future wife which could be virgin when she meets you … but end up … cheating on you and act as a whore … but you could also marry a prostitute …. that could love … adore … and respect you … into an infinite mode.”
I was meditating of those words … for years.
At that time … i was into a point when i did not knew … so clear … what is the difference between a virgin and …. a prostitute.
Few days ago … while meeting Clara again …she showed me the message to her lover …
“It feels like I'm some kind of monster or a prostitute, due to the fact that I had a relationship before you.
Yes… I had men and had an ex-husband!
YES! And same as you … I have sometimes been manipulative in my life!!!!
You've had women too, and you're manipulating all the time!
But for some reasons I'm not afraid to be with you!!
And I do not accuse you of all mortal sins, just because you are a person and that you lived before me, and did not sit in a monastery!”
I suddenly remembered … that grandma … and her words.
Clara had today … a real relationship problem with her lover.
The impact on their past …. into their love story … appeared … daily.
They could simple … not decide … to make a zero point … and ignore all from their past.
I was almost laughing … hearing Clara’s problem … realizing they both … became … depressive … because of this non ending discussions about … the past.
It was ridiculous…. not understanding that past it’s gone … and it’s useless to keep mentioning it … on and on and on.
I wanted to tell her … what that grandma told me so many years ago … but i reply to Clara ….”Maybe you should give me his phone number.
I’d like to call him … to tell him … a motivational story … which i heard …. many years ago.”
I was laughing …. seeing the presence of those negative vibes … into this couple.
All i could say … that i saw the whole situation as … ridiculous.
The truth is …. that nobody knows the future … and it’s all a lottery when it comes about life … and relationships … but being worried … acting like depressive people … which are dominated by the past … it’s a nonsense.
And sometimes … we must learn to … reset ourself … and believe into the future … not into the past.
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